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Emotion Dysregulation

When Your Emotions Feel Too Big to Handle

If you’re a highly sensitive person, you likely feel emotions more intensely than most — joy, sorrow, fear, love, anger. That emotional depth is a strength, and when your nervous system becomes overwhelmed, it can feel like your emotions are running the show.

Emotional dysregulation is when emotions feel too big, too fast, or too hard to manage. You might find yourself reacting in ways that feel out of proportion, or struggling to come back to calm once something sets you off. It can feel like you're stuck on an emotional roller coaster — exhausted from the ups and downs, and unsure how to get off the ride.

You’re not “too much.” You’re not broken. You may simply never have learned the tools to regulate emotions in a way that works with your sensitivity — not against it.

What Emotional Dysregulation Can Look Like

Because highly sensitive people process everything more deeply, dysregulation can show up in many ways, including:

  • Intense anxiety, depression, or mood swings

  • Shame, self-criticism, or emotional overwhelm

  • Sudden outbursts of anger, panic, or uncontrollable crying

  • Self-harming behaviors or urges

  • Using substances, food, or risky behaviors to try to cope

  • Struggles with perfectionism or fear of failure

  • Difficulty calming down once triggered

  • Conflicted or stormy relationships

  • Feelings of emptiness, numbness, or being “too much”

When dysregulation is ongoing, it can impact every area of your life — your relationships, your ability to work, your sense of identity, and your hope for the future.

The Good News: You Can Learn to Regulate Your Emotions

Emotional regulation is like having a volume dial for your feelings — not to silence them, to help you turn them down when they get too loud, and respond with more calm and clarity.

In therapy, you’ll learn:

  • Why your emotions feel so intense — and how that’s connected to your nervous system and past experiences

  • How to regulate emotions in real-time, without suppressing or avoiding them

  • Coping skills to soothe your body and mind when you feel overwhelmed

  • How to navigate conflict and relationships without shutting down or exploding

  • Practices that help you feel more grounded, balanced, and in control

You Deserve Support That Honors Your Sensitivity

Emotional depth is a gift — and without the right support, it can feel like a burden. Therapy offers a safe space to understand your emotions, build resilience, and move through life with more stability and self-trust.

If you’re ready to feel more balanced and in control, I’m here to help you find your way back to center.

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